Well done Alec---a sincere and personal take. Some of my most talented and successful (admittedly that's a controversial term) have Imposter Syndrome, which may be part of what you're writing about.
I've screwed up a lot of things in my life, but as my kids start to go off to college, this is one thing I'm glad to say I've gotten mostly right. I haven't cared much about what other people think, or what other people's idea or image of success looks like. I sat down at a fairly young age, clearly defined my values and what's most important to me (being a consistent, loving, supportive, and present Dad at the top of that list), and structured my life accordingly. And I haven't regretted it. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and being vulnerable!
I've only had a chance to read this one and your piece on fire drills (thanks to my very distracting kiddos-ha!). As I've leaned into home life for the last few years, I initally read these lessons while reminiscing on my previous "corporate" self, but damn... do they apply equally as well to parenthood. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing these thought provoking pieces. I feel like I have you in my leadership corner in a new way as I tackle motherhood with 3 energetic toddlers. Thanks Alec!
Oh wow, that's very nice of you to say. TOTALLY applies to parenthood, maybe even more so. And (unfortunately) even more pressure is put on moms to be "successful" parents than dads (booooooooooo). I feel you on three kids -- it's a lot, but trust me, it gets better and better.
Ain't that the truth. I'm reminded of "you'd worry less what people think of you if you realized how seldom they do" — which is something I'm still trying to internalize more. And so cool to hear how posting vulnerably has been such a boon for you!
Letting go is liberating! I used to think I had to have all the answers. Since giving up, I realized all I had to do was show up and do the best with what I've got—and be okay with that. Thanks for sharing, very well articulated.
I enjoyed this Alec, particularly your remarks on the image of success as an obstacle to true fulfillment. So true.
Well done Alec---a sincere and personal take. Some of my most talented and successful (admittedly that's a controversial term) have Imposter Syndrome, which may be part of what you're writing about.
I've screwed up a lot of things in my life, but as my kids start to go off to college, this is one thing I'm glad to say I've gotten mostly right. I haven't cared much about what other people think, or what other people's idea or image of success looks like. I sat down at a fairly young age, clearly defined my values and what's most important to me (being a consistent, loving, supportive, and present Dad at the top of that list), and structured my life accordingly. And I haven't regretted it. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and being vulnerable!
I've only had a chance to read this one and your piece on fire drills (thanks to my very distracting kiddos-ha!). As I've leaned into home life for the last few years, I initally read these lessons while reminiscing on my previous "corporate" self, but damn... do they apply equally as well to parenthood. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing these thought provoking pieces. I feel like I have you in my leadership corner in a new way as I tackle motherhood with 3 energetic toddlers. Thanks Alec!
Oh wow, that's very nice of you to say. TOTALLY applies to parenthood, maybe even more so. And (unfortunately) even more pressure is put on moms to be "successful" parents than dads (booooooooooo). I feel you on three kids -- it's a lot, but trust me, it gets better and better.
I love this side of you Alec-- incredibly impressed and proud!
I really enjoyed this! Thanks for sharing, while I don’t have those accolades I can relate (especially in what I do for work)! Thank you!
Ain't that the truth. I'm reminded of "you'd worry less what people think of you if you realized how seldom they do" — which is something I'm still trying to internalize more. And so cool to hear how posting vulnerably has been such a boon for you!
Letting go is liberating! I used to think I had to have all the answers. Since giving up, I realized all I had to do was show up and do the best with what I've got—and be okay with that. Thanks for sharing, very well articulated.